Sunday, January 16, 2011

Day 3-Your first love

Hmm, this one's tough. I met him in middle school. We dated on and off throughout 7th and 8th grades and decided to break up in the beginning of our freshman year of high school. We stopped talking due to the fact that he started dating my middle school best friend. Thankfully I never had any classes with either of them. Junior high school we started talking again and decided to start dating again. Things went very good for a while. Than little things started happening. I noticed I didn't have many of my own friends. We always were hanging out with his friends and doing things that he liked. I started drifting away from my church family and friends. Than things would happen to where I wasn't "allowed" to talk to certen people. He would get p/o'd when I didn't text him back within minutes. I had to justify every single thing I did. I even got "in trouble" when I pierced my ears without talking to him about it first.

Thankfully, I went to PA with him when I was 18. He had mentioned many times that he wanted us to move up there after graduation. After seeing how secluded the area is up there, I knew I wouldn't want to leave where I'm at. So when I got back from PA I knew I would have to call our relationship off. It was very tough. I knew he would be upset, but I wasn't expecting to hear what he said. He went crazy telling me he wouldn't live without me. He said he was going to come over to my house.... Things just went on from there. But I stood by my decision and went back to the single life. Let me tell you... It was wonderful!

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